This is meant to be used as study material on the men of the Bible and how they embody the attributes that make up a Godly man. Through various narratives, we can explore their virtues, challenges, and the lessons learned from their lives. By examining figures such as Moses, David, and Paul, we gain insights into qualities like leadership, humility, and perseverance. These examples serve to inspire us to develop similar characteristics in our own lives, reflecting a commitment to faith and moral integrity. As we delve deeper into their stories, we uncover timeless principles that encourage personal growth and a closer relationship with God.
Joseph The Trustworthy & Merciful
A key character in the Bible who exemplifies trustworthiness is Joseph, the son of Jacob. Despite facing numerous hardships, including being sold into slavery by his brothers and imprisoned for false accusations, Joseph remained faithful and trustworthy in his responsibilities. His integrity and ability to interpret dreams eventually led him to become a trusted advisor to Pharaoh, where he played a crucial role in saving Egypt from famine. His story highlights the importance of being trustworthy in difficult circumstances.
(Read Genesis 37 – 50)
Trustworthiness (Faithful – Loyal – Truthfulness – Honesty – Dependable – Integrity)
- Integrity in Adversity: Joseph remained trustworthy even when faced with temptation. For example, when Potiphar’s wife tried to seduce him, he refused her advances, demonstrating his commitment to moral principles (Genesis 39:7-12).
- Responsibility in Leadership: After being sold into slavery and rising to a position of authority in Egypt, Joseph managed the grain stores during seven years of plenty, ensuring there was enough to sustain the people during the subsequent famine (Genesis 41:46-49). His foresight and diligent management were crucial for the survival of many.
- Honesty with His Brothers: When his brothers came to Egypt seeking food, Joseph tested their character but ultimately revealed his identity without seeking revenge. This shows his ability to handle power with integrity (Genesis 45:1-15).
Mercy (Forgiveness – Compassion – Grace)
- Forgiveness of His Brothers: After years of hardship caused by his brothers’ betrayal, Joseph forgave them when they came to him in need. Instead of punishing them, he reassured them and emphasized that their actions had ultimately led to a greater purpose in saving lives (Genesis 50:19-21).
- Compassion in Crisis: Joseph demonstrated mercy not just towards his family but also to the people of Egypt and surrounding nations during the famine. He provided for them, ensuring they had food and support, thus alleviating their suffering (Genesis 41:55).
- Restoration of Relationships: By inviting his family to live in Egypt and providing for them, Joseph helped restore familial bonds that had been broken by his brothers’ earlier actions (Genesis 45:9-11).
Joseph had every reason to abuse his power and to deny forgiveness to his brothers for what they had done to him, so why didn’t he? I would say that it was because he realized where he received his power from and who had extended mercy toward him first. Of course, we are speaking of God, our Heavenly Father and our Lord Jesus Christ. Our Lord shows us patience and grace each day. He supplies us with everything we need and grants us new mercy each and every morning. Consider the words in Lam 3:22-24, where does your hope lie? How long should the Lord be patient with those who plot against Him, His Anointed One, and His people? May we seek refuge in Him by obeying His commandments and fearing Him, lest we perish. (read Gal 5:16-26)
- Why do these traits/fruit matter in regard to being a man of God?
- What stood out in a unique way to you regarding Loyalty & Forgiveness in the aspect of Joseph’s life?
- What was his downfall, and how can we learn from it?
- In what ways could you do a better job in the areas of faithfulness and dependability? What value does the world place on honesty?
- What example of these traits do we see in Christ? (provide passage/story)
Generosity of King David
David had it all in regards to life experience. From shepherd to warrior, from small-town boy to the Lord’s king. He lived in times of love, hatred, and jealousy. He rose to great heights and fell to great depths. And yet after it all, he was known as “a man after His (God’s) own heart.” Let this encourage you. If David, who had his own shortcomings, can be known as that, so can we. Let us learn from David’s leadership and character in regards to a spirit of generosity.
(Read 1 Samuel 16-20,30-31 & 2 Samuel 1-12,22-24)
(Charitable – Hospitable – Gratitude)
- Provision for the Temple: David expressed his desire to build a temple for God. Although he was not allowed to construct it himself, he gathered vast resources—gold, silver, and precious materials—to ensure the temple would be magnificent. He encouraged others to contribute as well (1 Chronicles 29:2-9).
- Support for His People: David was known for his concern for the welfare of his subjects. He often provided for the needs of the Israelites, including during times of famine or distress (2 Samuel 21:1-14).
- Acts of Kindness: After becoming king, David sought out any remaining family members of Saul to show kindness. He brought Mephibosheth, Jonathan’s son, to live in his palace and provided for him, restoring to him land that belonged to his grandfather (2 Samuel 9).
- Generosity in Leadership: David often shared his spoils of war with his men and the people of Israel, demonstrating his commitment to the well-being of those around him (1 Samuel 30:24-25).
- Caring for the Vulnerable: Throughout his reign, David made provisions for the poor and the needy, showing compassion and a commitment to justice. His Psalms often reflect a concern for the marginalized and oppressed (Psalm 41:1).
- Generosity of Spirit: In Psalm 51, after his sin with Bathsheba, David pleads for a clean heart and a willing spirit. He acknowledges that true worship comes from a heart that is generous in repentance and gratitude, demonstrating a willingness to turn back to God and serve Him wholeheartedly.
- Why does God care about His people being generous?
- What stood out in a unique way to you in regards to the generosity in the aspect of David’s life?
- What was his downfall and how can we learn from it?
- In what ways could you do a better job in the areas of living out generosity? What value does the world place on it?
- What example of generosity do we see in Christ? (provide passage/story)
- David describes the Lord as his shepherd and makes the statement that “My cup overflows” (Psalm 23:5). What did that mean for David and how can we, as men, embrace the same thing?
“And what more shall I say? For time would fail me to tell of Gideon, Barak, Samson, Jephthah, of David and Samuel and the prophets— who through faith conquered kingdoms, enforced justice, obtained promises, stopped the mouths of lions, quenched the power of fire, escaped the edge of the sword, were made strong out of weakness, became mighty in war, put foreign armies to flight.” Hebrews 11:32-34
- Write out a few things that you observe about the passage above.
- What did all these men have in common? And why was it important?
Sacrificial Life of Paul
Paul the Apostle gave up his life of privilege and status as a Pharisee to spread Christianity. He endured immense hardship, imprisonment, and persecution in order to teach and support newly established Christian churches. His story is one of immense transformation and relentless sacrifice. He set the bar when it came to sacrificial mission work by always placing the Gospel first, not to mention also placing the spiritual well-being of the people of God above his own desires.
(Read Acts 9 & 27-28. Phil 1 & 3. 1 Cor 9. Romans 12. 2 Cor 5.)
(Self-Denial – Serving Others – Endurance in Suffering – Joy in Sacrifice)
1. Sacrifice of Personal Comfort for the Gospel: He often gave up his personal freedoms and comfort for the sake of spreading the Gospel and caring for the early church, enduring hardships, imprisonment, and persecution (2 Corinthians 11:23-28).
2. Multiple Imprisonments: Throughout his ministry, Paul was imprisoned multiple times. Notably, he spent significant time in prison in Philippi (Acts 16:23-24), in Caesarea (Acts 24:27), and in Rome (Acts 28:16). His letters often reflect his circumstances in chains.
3. Physical Hardships: Paul endured many physical challenges, including beatings, stonings, and shipwrecks. He describes being beaten with rods (2 Corinthians 11:25), stoned (Acts 14:19), and shipwrecked three times (2 Corinthians 11:25).
4. Isolation and Rejection: At times, Paul experienced isolation and rejection from both friends and former associates. He speaks of being deserted by some of his companions (2 Timothy 4:10-11) and feeling alone in his ministry.
5. Lack of Financial Support: Paul often worked as a tentmaker to support himself and refrained from being a financial burden on the churches (Acts 18:3; 1 Thessalonians 2:9). He faced challenges in securing adequate resources for his ministry.
- How can we practically go about finding joy in times of hardship?
- Why was Paul so comfortable being always mistreated?
- What example of sacrificial living do we see in Christ? (provide passage/story)
- What stood out in a unique way to you in regard to Paul in the aspect of endurance?
- In what ways could you do a better job in the area of sacrificial living to both the Lord and others?
- What examples does Paul give us in regard to how Christ suffered?
The Compassion of The Good Samaritan
The Good Samaritan exemplifies compassion through several key actions. Unlike others who passed by without offering assistance, the Samaritan tended to the man’s wounds, providing care and ensuring his safety. This willingness to put the needs of another before his own, regardless of societal norms or potential risks, illustrates true compassion and empathy.
(Read Luke 10:25-37)
(Kindness – Meekness – Gentleness – Love)
1. Matthew 22:39 – The Greatest Commandment: “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” This commandment, found in Matthew 22:39 and repeated in Mark 12:31, closely parallels the lesson of the Good Samaritan, emphasizing love and compassion for others.
2. John 13:34-35 – A New Commandment: Jesus teaches his disciples, “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.” This command to love others as Jesus loves them complements the message of sacrificial compassion found in the Good Samaritan parable.
3. Matthew 5:43-48 – Love for Enemies: In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus calls his followers to love even their enemies: “But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.” This teaching resonates with the compassion shown by the Samaritan, who helps someone from a group historically hostile to him.
- Who is our Neighbor?
- Why is the Law important?
- What examples of compassion do we see in Christ? (provide passage/story)
- How can we show such mercy like the Samaritan showed?
- What’s the hermeneutics of this parable? (one point & allegory method)
Daniel’s Self Control
Daniel demonstrates self-discipline when he refuses to eat the king’s rich food and wine, choosing instead to eat vegetables and water to maintain his faith and health. His commitment to his principles and ability to resist the temptations of the Babylonian court show strong self-control. This decision ultimately leads to favorable outcomes for him and his companions, highlighting the benefits of self-discipline and faithfulness. Instead of outright rebellion, he approached the situation with wisdom and tact.
(Read Daniel 1-12)
(Discipline – Restraint – Diligent)
“Self-control” is the ability to submit one’s flesh to God’s law, to gain control over one’s mind, heart, and strength. We see this in controlling our words and actions in everything we do.
“Every athlete exercises self-control in all things. They do it to receive a perishable wreath, but we an imperishable.” 1 Cor. 9:25
- Self control in Physical Well-being: After the trial period, Daniel and his friends appeared healthier than those who consumed the king’s food. This not only validated their choice but also demonstrated that self-control can lead to positive outcomes.
- Spiritual Integrity: Daniel’s refusal to conform to the king’s ways reinforced his loyalty to God. His self-control was a testament to his faith, showing that he prioritized his relationship with God over immediate worldly benefits.
- Influence and Favor: Daniel’s steadfastness garnered him favor in the eyes of his captors. This led to opportunities where he could further serve God by interpreting dreams and visions, ultimately leading to his rise in the Babylonian court.
- Cultural Pressure: Daniel’s story resonates with anyone facing pressure to conform to societal norms that conflict with personal beliefs. His self-control serves as a powerful example of how to navigate such challenges with grace.
- Long-term Vision: Daniel’s choices reflect a long-term perspective. Instead of seeking immediate gratification, he focused on what would sustain his spiritual health and identity.
- Community Impact: Daniel’s commitment influenced not only his life but also the lives of his friends. Their collective self-discipline fostered a sense of unity and purpose among them.
In summary, Daniel’s story exemplifies self-control as a vital virtue, showcasing how it can lead to both personal integrity and broader influence. His life encourages readers to remain steadfast in their values, even in challenging circumstances.
- What does 1 Cor 9:25 mean for a Christian in regard to Eternity? How can thinking like this help our long-term vision?
- Has there ever been a time that you felt cultural pressure to conform to something that went against your faith like Daniel?
- What are two unique things that stood out to you in the life of Daniel?
- What example of self-control do we see in Christ? (provide passage/story)
- What role does self-control play in our physical and spiritual life? And what are a few practical ways that we can grow in self-control?
Job Remaining Steadfast
When it comes to being steadfast, we find no better example besides Christ than Job. He was given much in his life, enjoying the blessings of family, wealth, and a prosperous existence, but when much was taken away from him in a series of devastating trials, he demonstrated remarkable resilience. Despite facing immense loss, including the tragic death of his children and the destruction of his property, he always seemed to have found faith and hope in God during such trying times. Job’s unwavering belief became a powerful testament to his character and strength, illustrating that faith can be a source of comfort and guidance even in the darkest moments.
(Read Job 1-7, 22, 38-42)
(Resilience – Unwavering – Enduring – Persistent – Determined)
- Faith in Adversity: Job experiences immense loss—his wealth, children, and health. Despite these overwhelming trials, he maintains his faith in God. His famous declaration, “Though he slay me, yet will I hope in him” (Job 13:15), illustrates his unwavering trust.
- Integrity: Even when his friends accuse him of wrongdoing and suggest that his suffering is a punishment from God, Job steadfastly defends his integrity and righteousness. He refuses to curse God, instead continuing to seek understanding and justice.
- Perseverance in Prayer: Job’s steadfastness is also evident in his persistent dialogue with God. He does not shy away from expressing his confusion and anguish, showing that steadfastness can coexist with honest questioning.
- Restoration and Faithfulness: In the end, Job is restored and blessed with even greater prosperity than before. His steadfast faith is rewarded, and he becomes a model for enduring trials with faith.
- How do Job’s words in ch. 13:15 help us face tribulation?
- What role does prayer have in our steadfastness?
- In what ways does a healthy fear of the Lord play a key part in our ability to be steadfast? Job 28:28
- What example of steadfastness do we see in Christ? (provide passage/story)
- Do we often think of God’s sovereignty in times of trial? How does His sovereignty bring comfort to the believer during hardships? – Job 1:6-12
- What is the takeaway from observing Job’s friends and how they handled adversity?
The Obedience & Submission of Abraham
We tend to find obedience and submission to go hand in hand with one another. This dynamic relationship is profoundly illustrated in the life of Abraham, who exhibited unwavering faith by diligently following the instructions of the Lord and yielding to His authority in every circumstance. Abraham’s adherence to divine guidance showcases not only his commitment but also the trust he placed in God’s promises, exemplifying a profound relationship of faith. Furthermore, we see a significant foreshadowing in the act of offering up his only son as a sacrifice, a moment filled with ultimate obedience and deep personal sacrifice. Yet, even in that moment of extreme testing, the Lord provided an alternate escape ram, demonstrating His mercy and provision. This powerful narrative serves as a poignant example of how Christ, too, took our place—bearing the burden of our failures and sins so that we might have eternal life.
(Read Gen 11-25)
(Conformity – Compliance – Trust & Respect for Authority)
1. Call to Leave Home: Abraham’s journey began when God commanded him to leave his homeland, Ur of the Chaldeans, and go to an unknown land (Genesis 12:1-4). Abraham obeyed without hesitation, demonstrating trust and submission to God’s plan.
2. Covenant with God: When God established a covenant with Abraham, promising him numerous descendants and land, Abraham accepted this covenant and followed God’s instructions, including the act of circumcision as a sign of that covenant (Genesis 17:9-14).
3. Trust in God’s Promises: Despite his old age and the barrenness of Sarah, Abraham believed in God’s promise that he would have a son (Genesis 15:1-6). His faith and obedience in trusting God’s word, even when circumstances seemed impossible, exemplified profound submission.
4. Willingness to Sacrifice Isaac: One of the most powerful demonstrations of Abraham’s obedience came when God tested him by asking him to sacrifice his son Isaac (Genesis 22:1-2). Abraham prepared to obey without question, showing complete submission to God’s will, believing that God could raise Isaac from the dead (Hebrews 11:17-19).
5. Intercession for Sodom: Abraham displayed obedience through his intercession for the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah (Genesis 18:22-33). His willingness to engage in dialogue with God about sparing the righteous showed a heart that was attuned to God’s justice while remaining submissive to God’s authority.
6. Following God’s Guidance: Throughout his life, Abraham sought and followed God’s guidance. Whether moving to Canaan or separating from Lot (Genesis 13:8-9), he consistently made decisions based on God’s direction, demonstrating a lifestyle of obedience.
7. Obeying God’s Commands: Abraham’s actions reflected his obedience to God’s commands, such as when he received guests (Genesis 18:1-8) and when he was diligent in establishing worship through altars (Genesis 12:7; 13:18), signifying his commitment to God.
8. Submission to God’s Timing: Abraham waited many years for the fulfillment of God’s promise of a son. He exhibited patience and submission during this waiting period, showing faith that God’s timing is perfect (Genesis 21:1-2).
- Has there ever been a time you have had to wait on the Lord’s timing like Abraham had to for Isaac?
- How difficult is it to conform to God’s words compared to the false promises of the world?
- What are a few of the promises we have for those who are obedient to God?
- What example of submission do we see in Christ? (provide passage/story)
- What is the source of this obedience? And how might we grow in it? Hebrews 11:8
- In what ways do I fail to be submissive & obedient?
- Why are we more inclined to submit in some seasons of life and not others?
Wisdom – King Solomon
Solomon’s wisdom was attributed to his deep understanding of justice, governance, and knowledge, often seen as a gift from God, bestowed upon him to lead his people with fairness and discernment. This wisdom was not merely inherent; it was the result of his earnest seeking, as he humbly approached God, imploring for insight and guidance in his reign. He understood that God is the giver of all wisdom, recognizing that true knowledge transcends human experience and is rooted in divine enlightenment.
(Read 1 Kings 1-11)
(Patience – Fear of God – Discernment)
1. Judgment: His famous judgment in the case of two women claiming to be the mother of a baby showcased his ability to discern truth and justice. By proposing to divide the baby, he revealed the true mother’s love and selflessness, demonstrating his profound understanding of human nature.
2. Seeking Knowledge: Solomon famously asked God for wisdom rather than wealth or power when given the chance to request anything. This desire for wisdom over material gain highlights his prioritization of knowledge and understanding.
3. Diplomacy and Governance: Solomon built alliances through marriage and trade, enhancing Israel’s wealth and security. His diplomatic skills reflect his strategic thinking and ability to navigate complex relationships.
4. Building Projects: He oversaw the construction of the First Temple in Jerusalem, recognizing its significance for the people and their worship, showcasing his vision for a unified religious identity.
5. Writings and Proverbs: Solomon is credited with many proverbs and pieces of literature that convey timeless wisdom about life, morality, and human behavior, demonstrating his ability to articulate insights that guide others.
6. Economic Management: He implemented wise policies that bolstered the economy, including trade expansion and resource management, ensuring prosperity during his reign. Solomon is remembered not only as a powerful king but as a symbol of wisdom in leadership and governance.
7. Proverbs and Songs: Solomon is credited with writing much of the Book of Proverbs, offering practical wisdom on a wide range of topics. His songs and proverbs reflect deep understanding and insight.
- What is Biblical discernment? And How do we pursue growth in this area?
- Is true wisdom only found in God, or can it be acquired through other means?
- What role do questions, curiosity, and seeking out wise counsel play in our own spiritual journeys?
- What example of wisdom do we see in Christ? (provide passage/story)
- Despite his wisdom, Solomon’s later years were marked by idolatry and disobedience to God (1 Kings 11:1-13). What does this teach us about the dangers of becoming complacent or allowing external influences to distract us from our faith?
- In today’s world, what qualities do you think are most important for a leader to have? How does wisdom rank in those qualities?
- What aspect does patience play in wisdom?
Nehemiah’s Leadership
Nehemiah exhibited exceptional leadership by organizing and motivating the people of Jerusalem to rebuild the city walls despite significant opposition. He demonstrated strategic planning, strong faith, and resilience. By securing the necessary resources, delegating tasks effectively, and maintaining morale, Nehemiah turned a daunting project into a unified effort. His story is a prime example of visionary leadership combined with practical action.
(Read Nehemiah 1-13)
(Decisiveness – Delegation – Collaboration)
1. Vision and Purpose: He identified the need to rebuild Jerusalem’s walls and clearly articulated this vision to others, inspiring them to take action.
2. Prayer and Planning: Nehemiah sought guidance through prayer and prepared meticulously before approaching King Artaxerxes for permission and resources, showing that effective leadership involves careful consideration and seeking divine direction.
3. Empowerment and Collaboration: He engaged the community by delegating tasks and encouraging everyone to participate in the rebuilding effort, fostering a sense of ownership and teamwork.
4. Resilience: Nehemiah faced opposition and challenges but remained steadfast, motivating the people to continue working despite threats and discouragement.
5. Integrity and Accountability: He led by example, maintaining high ethical standards and holding himself and others accountable, which built trust within the community.
- Is everyone called to Leadership?
- How crucial is trust and respect for leaders to have?
- In Nehemiah 3, various groups work on different sections of the wall. How does this example illustrate the importance of a leader encouraging teamwork and shared responsibility?
- Nehemiah begins many chapters with prayer. How does this reflect his leadership style and dependence on God?
- How does recognizing achievements and praising others contribute to motivation and team morale?
- What example of leadership do we see in Christ? (provide passage/story)
- How should leaders handle internal conflicts and divisions within a team or organization? Think of Chapter 5 regarding the exploitation of the poor.
- We see Nehemiah was personally involved in the work of rebuilding the wall, not just delegating the task. How does this reflect the principle of servant leadership?

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